You will be replaced by a 19-year-old.
A kid with a TikTok and no shame is going to take your job.
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You’re not getting replaced by AI.
You’re getting replaced by a 19-year-old.
It’s already happening to me. I’ve spent more than ten years getting good at marketing, and most of that experience doesn’t matter anymore.
That should make me angry. But it mostly makes me feel old.
And it’s not because the 19-year-old is “better with AI” than me. If anything, I’m faster with the tools than she is. That’s exactly the problem: AI got so good that being good at it stopped being an edge. What took me ten years to learn, she gets for $20 a month. We’re “even” on the part I was best at.
But there’s one gap I’ll never close:
Her generation.
I’m convinced Gen Z and Gen Alpha grew up wired differently than the rest of us. That wiring gives the 19-year-old two edges I can’t out-experience:
Her nerve. She has no muscle memory (or “context”) for the old way.
Her audience-building skills. She’s been building one on social media since she was a kid, long before she ever needed it.
She has both. I lost the first to experience, and I was born too early for the second.
Everyone keeps saying AI will take the entry-level jobs first. From where I sit, hiring marketers since 2022, it’s the opposite. The 19-year-old is fine. It’s the experienced ones who should be nervous, me included.
She doesn’t know what she’s not allowed to do.
So she just does it. She sends the email I’d have talked myself out of. She posts the thing I’d have run past a few people first to make sure it was good. Half of it goes nowhere. Enough of it works that I’ve stopped feeling smug about the decade I’ve got on her.
That’s who I used to be.
A tool I built over a weekend hit two million users in 48 hours. I borrowed audiences that weren’t mine to grow this newsletter. I don’t know if I could do either today. I know too much now, and most of what I know is just a list of reasons not to try.
In Hebrew we have a word for what I lost: חוצפה (chutzpah). The nerve to do something you have no right to do, then look surprised when anyone objects. I was born with it, but 10+ years of “experience” trained it out of me.
She still has all of hers.
She’s been building an audience since she was 12.
When I was a teenager, the only audience I could build was people I already knew. Facebook showed up in my late teens, and “my audience” meant friends from high school. 200 people at most.
She’s spent her whole adolescence doing the actual job of marketing: getting strangers on the internet to care. A finsta at 13, livestreams, a TikTok, a Substack at 16. By the time she interviews with me, she’s run more audience experiments than I had in my first five years.
You can’t really catch up to that - it’s a huuuuuge head start.
And this isn’t only a problem if you sell to young people. Marketing is the same job no matter who’s buying: getting attention from someone who never agreed to give it. She’s been doing that since before she could drive.
So I’m stealing her playbook.
If I can’t win this on experience anymore, I can try to unlearn ten years of caution. Eight things that are starting to work:
☕️ Take a “shut-up coffee”. I buy coffee for marketers almost half my age and make myself stay quiet. With 90,000 subscribers the ask is easy; the discipline is shutting up once I’m there. When we disagree on something internet-related, she’s right until I can prove otherwise.
🌈 Live on the platforms, don’t read about them. I used to read threads about TikTok instead of opening it and call it research. It was fear. My test now: if I can’t name 5 accounts I’d follow even if this wasn’t my job, I don’t get the place. I still fail it on a couple.
🌳 Touch grass. I go to events that have nothing to do with marketing. A few weeks ago I was the oldest person at a meetup at Pie, the Bonobos founder’s new startup, by a decade. Best thing I did all month.
⏱️ Ship before it’s ready. The risk never fully goes, so I give things a deadline and send them a little ugly. At some point, by “polishing” I’m not improving the work. I’m just making my fear feel productive.
🧪 Make it before I judge it. Before I call a format cringe, I spend an hour making one myself, badly, with the same $20 tools she uses.
☀️ Protect the bad ideas. Most great ideas sound stupid for the first five minutes. I used to kill them fastest in the room and call it good judgment. Now I ask “how would this actually work?” before I say no.
🚪 Ask what I’d do on day one. When I’m stuck, it’s usually because I’m defending a call I made five years ago. So I ask what I’d do if I started from zero here today. It’s almost always the thing I’ve been avoiding.
💼 Hire for less baggage. My best hires had the least experience, not the most. They tried the things I wouldn’t. Or the things I’d have killed in a meeting to sound like the adult.
My final thought is this:
You can’t out-experience someone who grew up doing the job, so stop trying. The solution is to just hire her. Finding her is easy. There’s a line of juniors out the door, hungrier than we ever were.
The hard part comes after: letting someone who can’t legally rent a car be right, over and over, until you learn to like it. Kick your ego out of the loop.
That’s my playbook for today.
See you next week,









I think is the first time I disagree with you, Tom.
Maybe you will be replaced in jobs related to social media marketing (or AI), as yes, Gen Z grew up with it, but this doesn't mean that all of that gen are fantastic doing a SM job... It's not the same doing it for your own personal gain than for a company, business, brand...
Also no the same doing tactics (e.g. video formats) than "strategic thinking" that is linked to other marketing areas, and business areas.
As Javier Ferrán pointed above, you cannot replace REAL work marketing experience (and expertise) for someone who hasn't even developed their front lobe yet! And especially with the reasoning that they just did amazing on a social media platform.
I do agree on learning from each other and asking them to how will that idea work rather than shutting it down inmediately. But I'd do that with anyone of my team, so not age-related (nor experience).
I believe you cannot replace a brain who did almost everything without AI for someone who is just used to it (and Google). Good luck if tools and AI are not available to "download" the expertise that took you 20-30 years... In a few minutes 😂
Pretty sure this is ragebait, but I'm a sucker and fell for it...
This sounds more like maybe you let your own talents and competitive edge (ie chutzpa) dull than it is about some savant 19 year old eating your lunch while you wrung your hands over finessing an email (which by the way, kudos; those rapid-fire-off-the-cuff emails she sends are incomprehensible 99% of the time).
And being able to grow audiences on social since she was 13 only tells me she knows how to market one brand to a distinct audience, not translate any brand to audiences she knows nothing about in dynamic and complex environments (which is what tenured marketers know how to do).
To your credit, I do think that giving these 19 year olds an easy entry into the workforce is much needed. I'd love to have her come on as a junior to help with the "grunt work" so I can mentor, guide, and broaden her thinking. That's what's great about this opportunity for both the inexperienced and experienced in the field.